Here we go again

so I am going to try to write again and much more regularly, no promises though. A lot of people  older and wiser than me have told me time and again, do what makes you happy. Life is short to worry about what others think. Even though I have moved on from a gossipy society, it still has its parasitic veins on me. Just a week ago, as I was invited by our family friends to a baby shower. My dad mentioned that I shouldn't ask my boyfriend to come along as he's Mexican and we aren't engaged or anything like that, these things make me so angry and frustrated. It's 2017 and I live in California it's exasperating. Anyways, after so long, I am finally in a good place, I have a great relationship with my current beau, I have a not so shabby job, and I am pleased with my work. I have much growing to do as a person but that's all of us, right?